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Friday, May 1, 2009 12:00 AM

Are Social Web Sites Spoiling In-Person Conversation?

Who says social web sites improve friendships? For while they can undoubtedly help us meet new people and stay in touch, their effect on the way we converse with one another face-to-face can be decidedly negative.

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Saturday, May 2, 2009 08:04 AM

Probably So

I recently checked into FB, now use it, though hardly with the knowingness of other inveterate users. It's useful for communicating with my FB-chattering grandchildren with whom I would otherwise not interact. And, I have found some old contacts, long dormant, with some measure of pleasant surprises. As for the locals and those with whom I consistently interact on a face-to-face basis, we do whatever we do on FB, and when we're together, we don't even mention it, and socialize as we always have. I guess my thought is that the medium is useful when used with some care, but it is a crappy substitute for any meaningful interpersonal interaction.

Saturday, May 2, 2009 07:41 AM

It's always something

Technology keeps changing, but people seem to stay the same.

I'm old enough to recall article upon article warning that letter-writing was under threat by something I'm too old to remember--the telephone?

In the crowd I ran with in the late 50s and early 60s, we wrote letters to people we were going to see in a few hours. It didn't make things boring or uneasy.

I remember pouring my broken heart out in the late 70s to someone who was balancing her checkbook and watching television simultaneously. I'm still pissed about that.

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