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You are one of the last people in this comments section who I would consider applying that term to.
Your post does, however, raise the related consideration that when one (over)uses such terms inappropriately, one has sorta prematurely 'shot one's wad' (if you'll pardon the adolescent expression),in that you're left with nothing to fall back on for those times when you really do need an appropriately offensive epithet. ;-}