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As far as gay marriage, I empathize with any citizens who aren't being treated equally. But we could avoid all this If we got back to basics: it violates the church/state separation that the Constitution's Establishment Clause guarantees us when the state empowers clerics to marry (i.e., legally unite) a couple, whether gay OR straight. Leave this administrative function to the government (city hall) to issue the license, register and authorize the union, without the unnecessary pageantry and superstition (find a cleric to opiate your union afterwards, if you want).