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"So getting married makes it ok?"
Yes, it does. Evangelicals have no qualms against divorce. In fact, evangelicals have more divorces between them than anybody else I know. They sometimes have 4 sets of stepgrandparents. They are all worried about how gays will defile the institution of marriage, but they jump in and out of marriages as if it is a big ole game of hopscotch. They use the all-purpose evangelical explanation: "We all make mistakes. Not even Christians are perfect."
So there will be a shotgun marriage and a divorce in a few years. No biggie.