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when you know nothing about a person's history, you can't possibly categorized them as sexist. need i remind you that the clintons were categorized as racist during the campaign simply because that was the only ammunition left in the barrel.
sexism like racism is usually institutional and is intended to keep women and minorities back. as a business owner, i've never judged or hired my employees based on sex, on the contrary.
i know nothing about you and wouldn't risk judging you, but it clearly sounds like you're out of step with the times. political correctness as a cover for society's failings is a thing of the '90s. now, it's about action not just good words, so i suggest that rather than worrying about my use of language, you preoccupy yourself with actually doing something about the real problems in society. and if i choose to call ann coulter, bill o'reilly, maureen dowd, rush limbaugh, or any of the other neanderthals populating the media twats, dicks, assholes, or what have you, then that is simply my problem, not a gender bias.