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And this concerns sexism, not whining.
But if you call a woman names with historical sexist associations, whether or not you like this woman, whether or not you would use these same terms for a man--it qualifies as sexist behavior.
Many people behaved in sexist ways towards Clinton and justified their behavior by saying that they didn't like her. Look--if you only use the word twat about women you don't like--sorry buddy, that's still sexist.
And what I mean by respect is not that you worship her ideas or respect her ideas--attack her ideas if you like, or even her style--but attacking her personally with words with sexist associations is not okay.
I'm glad that you feel Clinton's campaign transcended gender--that's great. But a writer below was chastised for attacking female supporters of Clinton by referring to their big girl panties...he was criticised for sexism--by people including myself. His justification was that he didn't like these people--because they might be helping to elect John McCain...but that didn't get him out of hot water either. And by the way this is not about my liking Maureen Dowd--sometimes she drives me nuts--although I do find myself reading her columns. I say this also because I've seen many attacks on Joan Walsh and other women on salon. The justification is always that they "deserve" it. I just don't agree.
And if Clinton's campaign is going to have a legacy in the Democratic Party--let it be that women don't deserve to be harassed with historically sexist language, any more than black people deserve to be harassed with historically racist language.