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If you're a gay, black man as you coyly suggest and you still muster compassion and restraint, I tip my hat to you. If I could doff my hair, I'd do that too.
Even if you're a staight, white guy, I still admire your restraint.
And I agree that this is a moment to discuss his mean-spiritedness and consequent divisiveness and how that's being replicated here.