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Your point is valid to an extent.
The thing is that MAD, generally deals with most other forms of extremist - with the religious extremist, wars become holy wars and Mutually Assured Destruction is less of a deterrent.
Particularly if you have the really, really scary ones - the rapturists. Forget everything about Muslims, in America there is a small group of Christians that actually wants the apocalypse.