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Friday, February 9, 2007 12:00 AM

Behind the Pillow Angel

Doctors at the Seattle hospital that operated on a disabled girl to keep her from reaching sexual maturity -- the controversial "Ashley Treatment" -- were more troubled by the procedure than has been reported previously.

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  • Saturday, February 10, 2007 12:47 PM

    In response...

    In response to the last post.. "In their shoes," how do you know what she would say? That is essentially the question. As parents, we have to do what is best for the child, not imagine what her response would be if she were mentally capable of answering for herself!

    Also, I hate to break it to you, but her parents will eventually die. Who will take care of her then? If she is always to have the mental capacity of a 3-month old, she will ultimately end up in the care of another (since the article also states she is expected to have a normal life expectancy.) What is wrong with finding a suitable care facility for your child if you are unable to care for them. Being willing to ask for help when you need it is also a sign of a good parent, whether or not your child is disabled. We all have limitations! Why is that such a bad thing?

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