I was talking up an 18 year old who works a pizza place the other day, she looked like Phoebe Cates in her younger years, she was THAT hot. And she was SO into me, coming up to talk to me and my friend, she would not go away, hoping it would lead to me asking her out. (I am 43 by the way)

Brightstar, I'm 46. I'm telling you now, unless you are a famous celebrity, there is no way that teenage girl was hot for you. It was all in your head. You need to start thinking like a man your age -- a regular, middle aged, overweight man -- before you get yourself into trouble.

Yes America is a land of fat asses!!! Thank you T.G.I.Friday's!!! I am just kidding everybody. I am sure that Burger King & McDonalds are doing as much damage as these so called restaurants. The T.G.I Friday's Wayne NJ had ok turkey burgers and the service wasn't bad.The wait staff were local college kids who were for the most part very nice & clean This T.G.I. Friday's now has a new building near the old location but I have not yet eaten there. I now go to the local dinner for my turkey burger {I am sure that the fries & onion rings are not all that good for me} but then again if Cheney gets back into office were all dead anyway. I also patronize a local restaurant in Paterson's historical district, Uncle Lou's. The owner Bobby couldn't be nicer, the food is great and the prices more than reasonable. I do have some questions though about restaurants in general. I find it very hard to find a really good Chinese take out in the Jersey burbs. The quality can be good one time and lousy the next. Maybe it is because they have different people working there over various nights. There seems to no consistency in food quality. Also has anyone noticed that Olive Garden puts cheese on everything? I mean everything! I have never eaten at one but watching those ads makes me not want to eat there. I have to laugh that they have a kitchen where they teach cooking and come up with new ideas. What new ideas-cover the earth with cheese and clog our pipes? I like cheese as much as the next person but that much cheese seems to be overkill.

Well, Brighty, before this decade, adult women didn't used to have to parade around, showing their entire midriff in public or wear low rise jeans or tiny tee-shirts.

Whatever rationalization pleases you. Point being women look like men today, with no curve in the waist anymore. live it.

This brings me back to: you are hyper-critical of women and their weight, and mention it all the time -- yet YOU are out of shape (220 lbs!)

220 pounds and 6'-0" may be a few pounds overweight, but I do not have a belly.

and eat like a pig (FOUR scoops of ice cream or a whole bottle of wine!), yet you sit in judgment of women who fail to live up to your ideal of perfection (i.e, you might not feel like "mounting them").

my ideal is no ideal, I am only concerned that I cannot find women who eat healthily. I was with a fiance who ate crap all the time and tried to get me off my eating habits.

perfection would be any woman who had any stinking knowledge or awareness of diet.

On the other hand, you whine and bray continously about awful women who won't go out with YOU, because you are not a slick, handsome "player".

Righto, the slickster players DO get laid. ALL THE TIME, even if they are not as worthy. In other words women have bad judgment. I am far from the only guy to point this out.

Handsome is beside the point, many women have thought I am handsome.

anyway, this is little of an issue, I have learned to become the same insincere prick women are used to being with.

I was talking up an 18 year old who works a pizza place the other day, she looked like Phoebe Cates in her younger years, she was THAT hot. And she was SO into me, coming up to talk to me and my friend, she would not go away, hoping it would lead to me asking her out. (I am 43 by the way)

The sad sad truth is that you women are a lie, you chase the players, not the good men, because to you, a man is not good UNLESS he acts like a player.

So I learn to roll with it. Does not mean women are not naturally full of shit.

What a pathetic double standard. It is no surprise you are childless and alone at 44.

Childless by CHOICE, hon. I refuse to make babies in the USA. And alone by choice as well, right now, since I get bored by the mindlessness of most American women.

And you can also quit being a typical American woman with her mitts and opinions in every guy's business as well, mmmkay?

I promise to do this, as SOON AS YOU stop talking about how your deserve a flawless beauty with a buff body, while you are pudgy, balding, whiny and misogynistic.

I never said I deserved a woman like that. Only that she be kind and respectful and not ugly. Do YOU adore ugly men? Of course not, you recoil from them. Grant me the same FUCKING right.

As for me: why would this be an issue to you anyway? Like you give a flip if I am ever with a woman? Do you CARE about me? Of course not. IT is convenient for you to try to trash me, someone who challenged your bullshit. Is this how you treat men? for shame. If a man calls it right, you ought to have the nuts to congratulate him for it rather than trying to trash him back.

and if I am mysogynistic (which I disagree with vehemently), look what I have to work with? I would not be mysogynistic if American women were not so freaking pathetic.

When you stop telling everyone about your lake house, or how you shop at Whole Foods, when we can stop hearing about your gastric distress or gas or how you digest various foods (bleccchhh).

You would call me a momma's boy loser sitting in her basement if I did not explain my successful circumstance.

Or maybe you stop assuming that ONLY women get fat (or double chins, or muffin tops) but MEN are simply stocky or big or strong.

I do not desire men. I have no need to point out their weight.

The obesity problem in the US affects men exactly as much as it does women, yet somehow the bodies of women are the only ones that get slammed on a regular basis by trollboys like you.

I do hate that men eat crap as well, because my medical costs are directly connected to the cost of having to deal with all the bad eating of everyone else.

You have YOUR mitts and YOUR opinions in every WOMAN'S business; why would you assume you have this right, but nobody else does???

Being a health nut is your right, but don't expect it to "save you" from your obviously dysfunctional anti-social behaviors, or as an excuse for your rage against women and society that just don't seem to see you as the "genius" you think you are.

I am anti social for very good reasons. This nation was just ass raped for eight years and nobody, except me and a few fools, had the nuts to say anything about it, much less to demand to throw out the bums.

and you wonder why I have no respect for any American?!? Americans are pathetic. This much is now known by me. Did ANYONE fucking back me up???

And it is not only the politics.