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Well, I'm glad to hear so many people are happy. The happiness and unhappiness is as varied as people are. In my case, the last year has been quite a difficult one, as the chronic depression and emotional difficulties of my spouse has finally started to wear me down after 20 years. It is exhausting, and I'm finding myself trying to sort through exactly what to do about it. Many people find themselves in positions such as me, and it takes a very exceptional and giving person to make it work with them. I am stil married, but am not sure I will be in a year or two. We'll see.