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Don't worry about it.
I am black, and a woman, and had some very serious problems with this article -- and was more than slightly annoyed at JudgeMental's apparent assumption that only someone white could possibly take issue with it. You posted your deliciously withering sarcasm before I could respond with a hearty "Way to ignore all the pissed off black women posting here for two days, thanks!!!" -- with wit to boot.
(There's a reason the Brits tell us Yanks we don't "get" irony. :-D)