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When my cousin and brother met for the first time, they were both four-year-old boys. My brother was kind of small and slight and sensitive. My cousin was built like a linebacker. Upon finding himself face to face with my brother, he backed up, got a running start, and headbutted my brother in the stomach. It seems funny now (and my brother doesn't remember the incident at all) but when it happened, we were horrified and my uncle and aunt were mortified.
He's had some discipline problems in the past. I think at one point he was even diagnosed with ADD. But he's turned out to be a good kid, and last time I saw him, he was running a successful mechanic shop working on high-end cars and motorcycles and was engaged to a pretty elementary school teacher.
I don't pretend to know what's going on with this kid--normal phase? problem that can be treated? But with concerned parents willing to face up to the fact that he's not their perfect little angel, he's not consigned to eternal dickhood by any means.
