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Due to social anxiety, I never dated in either high school or college, though I did manage to lose my virginity at age 19 to an older (married) woman I'm sure my dad put up to deflowering me. I was 26 the next time I had sex, and it's still a rare event for me now in my 40s. Yep, I'm an introverted freak who couldn't get laid to save my life.