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maybe intellectuals shouldnt have kids if they are going to overthink everything, the longer she holds off, the harder and more expensive its might be to have a baby.
he needs to:
1 dump the woman and find his 27 year old or
2 become a known/open sperm donor that way he can have children and be a part of their life but without having sexual/emotional contact with another woman
i dont know if he should have kids or not, but he definitely needs a backbone.