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Daddy dilemma My fiancee is 70 percent against kids. The clock is ticking, and it's up to me to convince her to do something I'm not sure about either.
  • Paralysis through analysis!

    News flash: "Author Falls Prey to Common Myths About Parenting"

    Myth: you should have children when you're ready

    Truth: you will never really be ready

    Myth: you should have children when you know what you are getting into

    Truth: you will never know until you have them. give up the search for forewarning.

    Myth: children are expensive, messy and troublesome

    Truth: OK, that's not just a myth. But it is easy to articulate and be understood about what PROBLEMS children present. It is hard to articulate and is very easy to sound hopelessly mushy and inane about the wonders and the benefits of children...but they are very real.

    So I would tell Mr Smith, etc: Jump in the water or don't, but don't spend the rest of your life contemplating what the jump might feel like, because you will never know without jumping.

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