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"I have never met a woman who regretted having a child, even if it was hard at the time."
Well, I have, and it's ugly all around, often involving all manner of abuse and crime.
Wasn't it the fellow who wrote 'Freakanomics' who pointed out (statistically and objectively, not judgementally) that children born to women over thirty have a higher success rate/standard of living overall?
There are always pros and cons and it's silly to suggest otherwise.