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Wednesday, March 8, 2006 12:00 AM

Open adoption, broken heart

I knew it would be hard for my daughter's birth mother to give her up. I just didn't expect to feel so guilty for taking her.

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  • Wednesday, March 8, 2006 02:55 AM

    Beautiful

    I am a twenty-six year-old adoptee with limited interest in finding her birth parents. I have never supported open adoption, but this essay, which brought tears to my eyes at the end, will make me rethink my stance on the issue. I am so impressed at the maturity and willingness to work with one another through something excruciatingly difficult that both the adoptive and birth families have shown. I hope it works out well for them and for Madison.

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