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<< I haven't seen a post reflecting my main thought, which is this: If someone dumps me solely because he thinks I slept with him "too soon," then he isn't the kind of person I want to ultimately be with, anyway. >>
Few guys will EVER decline sex from a woman. That does not mean he otherwise does not have high standards for himself.
say he is not a dog and is picky about who he has sex with and he waits and takes his time with other women but they do not work out in other ways, due to personality clashes etc,
if you present him with sex on the first date, few men would decline the opportunity to go for it. maybe it might change his mind otherwise if the sex is great.
but do not assume he is as much of a dog as you might be a slut.
you can have all the partners you want. women spread and they can get it anytime, despite the protestations of a few angry (ugly) feminists. Men have to set up a complex scenario and be shot down many times unless they are hot themselves.