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To avoid marrying a jerk, singles educators say you should stay out of bed on the first date and cross-examine your partner. Critics say their advice is hokum.
  • Mac

    Read your second paragraph and tell me what of that appeared in Lestat's post. The answer is none of it. If it had, I'd never have responded to her. Why do you assume that all the things you list happened to her when she didn't say they did?

    As to your third paragraph, no, I have no trouble seeing how bad things can be between people. But because they can be doesn't mean they will be. My point (again) is that Lestat just jumped at the first suggestion of a problem, and that is not a constructive way to deal with people, particularly someone you look at as a possible long-term patner.