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"The crux of this article, for me anyway, seems to be proof that a) neither men nor women have any clue how DRAMATICALLY their lives will change after a child and b) a weird assumption on women's part that men should be happy -- nay! -- thrilled that the woman they married has totally changed into someone so unreconginable that they probably never would have dated them in the first place if they had met each other in her new incarnation."
Really, other Anonymous, what's more important, your children or your on-demand sexual satisfaction? Raising children requires some sacrifices. Most women -- and men -- get it. You, apparently, do not.