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Clearly the author demonstrates the victimhood of all women - a victimhood writ large in this article.
Penetrated by the Oppressive Phallus, reduced to a womblike automaton to produce offspring for a selfish, insensitive man (is there any other kind?), she undergoes a functional clitoridectomy in order to provide him with an heir. Sick. Another Breeder Female serving the Patriarchy.
Ditch him - tell the cops he beats you, kick him to the curb, and join your sisters in a truly fulfilling relationship, where the only penis involved goes in the dishwasher every night.
Your Sapphic sisters await you!