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if the man she was with wouldn't or couldn't. Or a man, if it wasn't his fault and that's the difference. It's assumed that if a man can't get his wife to like sleeping with him it's because he's turned into a pig or an asshole. The reason this isn't more of an issue is because women get less attractive AND moe picky as they age so there isn't anyone available that they want.