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Saturday, January 28, 2006 12:00 AM

Sexual healing

I used to relish the challenge of being good in bed. I read the Kama Sutra with steely discipline, confident there wasn't a skill I couldn't master. Then I had a baby.

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  • Saturday, January 28, 2006 10:55 AM

    Oh the horror

    I could relate to some of this letter (the post-partum stuff) and not to some (the Kama Sutra, conquer-the-world-of-sex stuff), but here's what it made me think of: It's not bad to read this kind of work because it gives people insight into a part of life with which they might not yet (or ever) be personally familiar. And that's a big reason why we read other people's writing - we find out about stuff we might not of known before.

    My own post-partum revelation, which came as a complete surprise, was that all the families I knew (mainly orthodox religious) who had a series of kids all born less than or around a year apart were created by having sex while the mother was still 'post-partum' from the last birth. And I just thought, OUCH! But then, that was my own personal reaction.

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