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Whiny, neurotic... a couple of generations of self-absorbed Jennifer Anistons baffled at why their movie careers aren't taking off. A chuckle from well beyond the pale.
Having kids fundamentally changes things. A more fluid approach to what dear old Dr. Alex Comfort termed "loveplay" instead of the kabuki of pre-baby pole-in-hole sex would probably be pretty darn satisfying to both parties.
I remember I was a lot more interested in sleep than sex when the kids were really tiny and needed a lot of attention.
You've arrived at the new world. Burn your ships. Learn new dances.