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A MUTUAL decision means that BOTH parties are genuinely accepting of it. You can't have it both ways. Of course a woman shouldn't have sex if she doesn't want to and everyone understands that there are consequences if she does. BUT women can't really complain if there are ALSO consequences when a man doesn't get as much sex as he wants. It's the same old what's mine is mine what's yours' is ours. It's not easy, or always even possible, to work out TRULY MUTUALLY acceptable solutions to everything, but does delusion accomplish anyhing?
