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etc, and nobody complains when people make efforts to delay or counteract the changes that REALLY are inevitable(as opposed to the many that aren't or at least not as soon as they often happen) so why are so many people so anxious to "age out" of the desire or ability to have sex (or to look or act like they want to)? It's one thing to deal with reality, it's altogether another to inisist that anyone who tries to influence the situation to their liking or to induce others to do so is automatically an inconsiderate, stupid, shallow, oppressive...blah blah blah.