This letter is associated with the following article:
Letters
Saturday, January 28, 2006 12:00 AM

Sexual healing

I used to relish the challenge of being good in bed. I read the Kama Sutra with steely discipline, confident there wasn't a skill I couldn't master. Then I had a baby.

Read other letters about this article

  • Sunday, January 29, 2006 09:13 AM

    good that the author...

    determined that she doesn't need to have sex (or make love) unless she wants to. Hope her partner also knows that (and that he doesn't need to unless he wants to). Lovemaking shouldn't be a sporting event or competition. Hopefully paying attention to want and desire will lead to far more wonderful lovemaking in the future.

Most Active Letters Threads

726

The commendably missing element from Obama's speech

There was no pretense that human rights is our goal, or the likely outcome, in escalating the war
688

Obama's exceedingly familiar justifications for escalation

The "new" approach to Afghanistan touted by White House officials seems quite old
329

Yes, it's Obama's war now

An uninspiring speech sells a dubious policy, but progressives who feel betrayed have only themselves to blame
272

America's regression

It's almost impossible to find a nation with as many torture advocates as the U.S. has.
185

The poster boy for progressive self-delusion

Read Hayden's 2008 Obama endorsement to remember the way the left sold our centrist president to itself

View all »

Letters Help

Currently in Salon