This letter is associated with the following article:
Letters
Monday, December 12, 2005 12:00 AM

'Tis the season to obsess about food

Thanksgiving yams, Chanukah latkes, Christmas cookies ... for me, they all add up to a holiday-size serving of self-hatred.

Read other letters about this article

  • Monday, December 12, 2005 03:39 PM

    if you're thin, quit whining

    I noticed quite a few letters from thin women who are upset at Ayelet Waldman's comments about Paris Hilton and Lara Flynn Boyle. Boo hoo, they say, why do people hate me because I'm thin? To me, this is like a rich person complaining that poor people resent them, or white people complaining about how hard it is to be white. Get over it; your pain doesn't compare to theirs.

    I'm thin too, have been my whole life. It was no fun in junior high and high school when everyone else was developing and I wasn't. But you know what, as an adult, it's nice to be thin and be able to eat what I want. It's nice to lose all that pregnancy weight fast, and it's nice to be able to go clothes shopping without feeling lousy about my body. That said, I'm sensitive to the fact that for the majority of women in this country, weight is a neverending struggle. I'm aware that most women CAN'T eat what they want all the time, and that, if they're the least bit fat, people judge them harshly at every turn. I'm grateful that I don't have to deal with that, and anyone else who is thin should stop whining and count their blessings.

Most Active Letters Threads

530

Do Obama officials know what his Afghanistan plan is?

What explains the completely contradictory statements from key aides on a central plank of the war strategy?
222

A new report questions "suicides" at Guantanamo

Why is the Obama DOJ attempting to block judicial review of three highly suspicious deaths?
210

I live in a van down by Duke University

How do I afford grad school without going into debt? A '94 Econoline, bulk food and creative civil disobedience
128

Is my kids making me not smart?

Stay-at-home fatherhood dulls my intellect to a nub. Excuse me while I ponder the subtext of "Hippos Go Berserk"
126

Trig, the anti-abortion straw baby

Sarah Palin's son is being used to demonize pro-choicers

View all »

Letters Help

Currently in Salon