This letter is associated with the following article:
Letters
Monday, December 12, 2005 12:00 AM

'Tis the season to obsess about food

Thanksgiving yams, Chanukah latkes, Christmas cookies ... for me, they all add up to a holiday-size serving of self-hatred.

Read other letters about this article

  • Tuesday, December 13, 2005 02:21 PM

    Look in the Mirror, Salon readers

    I am not a regular Salon reader. I found my way to Waldman's piece from outside. Having now read the responses to her latest column, as well as all of her previous columns, I have to say that as impressed as I am by Waldman's writing, I'm so disgusted by the negative reactions of Salon readers that I doubt I'll be back.

    I won't bother with Salon's seemingly inexhaustible supply of savants dismayed by the alarming realization that a columnist might--can you imagine?--attempt to write in a way that is deliberately provocative. Thank God we've got no rich tradition or history of that in America! Ditto the "who cares about the problems of rich white people" crowd, whose penning of such elaborately outraged letters calls into question their own argument (and guilty sympathies). But has any of you narcissistic pots-calling-the-kettle-black noticed that in, in addition to her more personal columns, the woman has repeatedly and frequently addressed many neglected and unpopular causes in her columns, from the rights of women prisoners to Medicare? No, because those columns, which seem to have barely drawn any letters at all, either inconveniently don't fit your preconceived notion of "Crazy Ayelet" or else they vainly attempt to lift your myopic gazes out of the tiny little orbit of your own navels. It's only when she holds up a mirror to your own life that you realize you don't like what you see!

    I'm amazed at how self-revelatory are the letters of the people who berate Waldman for being too self-revelatory--in particular her male critics, whose ripostes rarely amount to more than "Shut up, bitch!"--and even more amazed by the total absence of reaction from these same readers when Waldman enlists their attention and sympathy to people less fortunate, less familiar, less like them.

Most Active Letters Threads

740

The commendably missing element from Obama's speech

There was no pretense that human rights is our goal, or the likely outcome, in escalating the war
688

Obama's exceedingly familiar justifications for escalation

The "new" approach to Afghanistan touted by White House officials seems quite old
364

America's regression

It's almost impossible to find a nation with as many torture advocates as the U.S. has.
329

Yes, it's Obama's war now

An uninspiring speech sells a dubious policy, but progressives who feel betrayed have only themselves to blame
309

Do Obama officials know what his Afghanistan plan is?

What explains the completely contradictory statements from key aides on a central plank of the war strategy?

View all »

Letters Help

Currently in Salon