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as you admit, this story mattered to you bec it mirrored your own life. celebrieties only matter to the degree that we can identify with them. or to the degree that something is so utterly missing in our own lives that we escape thru theirs. i suggest that you take yourself and your Matt to a qualified therapist and examine the insecurities in your relationship. this divorce appears to have triggered your fears, perhaps validly so. only a therapist can help you find that fine line between a realistic appraisal of your situation and a fantasy of love lasting forever.
JBB