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Thursday, July 2, 2009 12:00 AM

I got my act together but my wife is still mad

I realized I had to change and I did. But now I find out she's been cheating!

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  • Wednesday, July 1, 2009 08:28 PM

    Couldn't you have chosen another letter, Cary?

    I think most salonistas have read enough about the impact of adultery to last quite a while.

    I did once have a Taiwanese friend who abruptly quit her good job in LA to accompany the hubby to China where his company wanted him based. She did this so he would not take a mistress. I felt like pointing out, "Aah, if you weren't married you wouldn't have to base every major decision of the possibility he might cheat." But, to each his or her own.

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