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I think most salonistas have read enough about the impact of adultery to last quite a while.
I did once have a Taiwanese friend who abruptly quit her good job in LA to accompany the hubby to China where his company wanted him based. She did this so he would not take a mistress. I felt like pointing out, "Aah, if you weren't married you wouldn't have to base every major decision of the possibility he might cheat." But, to each his or her own.