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'To say the least it was unexpected and I don't think I was expected to find out.'
Calling captian obvious!!! Yeeesh what was your first clue? BTW, have you 'had the talk' with him? Does he know about using protection and birth control? It might be wise to take the girl to Planed Parenthood. I do think expecting him NOT to bring the girl back is silly. Otherwise LW, you seem to be on the right path, you've raised your kid well, and assuming he's protecting himself and the girl I'd prolly wait for him to approach you.
Warning - you'll get all sorts of stupid opinions from the posters. Have a good laugh.
Now back to the beach for me!