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Speaking from experience, my parents turned a blind eye to this. I took a lot of stupid risks, and in a way, I probably wanted to assert some control over my body. Looking back, I wish they'd taken the time to speak to me about possible consequences. Kids and adults are both capable of being reckless; I hope father & son can talk. The "awakening", as Cary referred to it, can get serious quickly if there's no communication. Best of luck to LW...