Read other letters about this article
I suggest that, in general, those who choose the "left behind" version of Jesus's love do not feel particularly good about themselves, and are in fact getting revenge on all those who they perceive as having slighted them, 'disrespected' them and their intelligence, were prettier, more popular, etc., etc. ...
What crueler form of punishment can be devised than choosing a religious view that saves only yourself and those who think as you do.