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How can you really and truly be in love with someone you've never had a conversation with? Cary's right, it's a crush and it seems way bigger in your mind than it is in reality. Probably cause you have nothing else going on. So go get something else going on and forget about this one, she's taken. Oh, and please try to inject some reality into your situation. Look at it through her eyes, try to really put yourself in her shoes. You might be surprised at what you learn about yourself when you understand other people's perspective.