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Tuesday, January 13, 2009 12:00 AM

I'm not ready to be a stepmom

If I marry, I get a 16-year-old who can barely take care of herself.

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  • Tuesday, January 13, 2009 02:03 PM

    Therapeutic boarding school

    If neither the father nor the LW is willing to parent this child, and the mother is out of the picture, it may be best if she is sent to a boarding school. There are good therapeutic boarding schools that can help her with her life skills and give her some attention.

    I don't recommend it for 99.99% of situations, but in this case, it may be the only hope for this kid. A friend from college was sent to Mooseheart after his mother dumped him on his grandmother. He was there from age 7 to age 18. It wasn't the worst thing that could have happened. It wasn't great, but it was a lot better than the nothing he was getting from his family.

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