This letter is associated with the following article:
Letters
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 12:00 AM

I'm not ready to be a stepmom

If I marry, I get a 16-year-old who can barely take care of herself.

Read other letters about this article

  • Tuesday, January 13, 2009 08:52 AM

    Barely ready to be a human being, much less a stepmom

    My heart breaks for this poor girl. Oh, not the tragically shallow 20-something who wrote the letter but the 16 year old. Except for her luxurious surroundings, she might as well have spent her brief life being raised by wolves in the wild. Even the ever-loving nanny sounds incompetent and inadequate or the poor girl would have been taught some basic life skills like personal hygiene or professionally evaluated if she's incapable of learning those skills.

    There appears to be at least one grandmother in the picture. I don't hear any mention of her stepping up the plate so we have to assume this family has been dysfunctional for generations.

    Just another argument for making the requirements for becoming a parent at least as stringent as those for adopting a poodle.

Most Active Letters Threads

740

The commendably missing element from Obama's speech

There was no pretense that human rights is our goal, or the likely outcome, in escalating the war
374

America's regression

It's almost impossible to find a nation with as many torture advocates as the U.S. has.
358

Do Obama officials know what his Afghanistan plan is?

What explains the completely contradictory statements from key aides on a central plank of the war strategy?
287

Palin: Birthers have "fair question" about Obama

Of Obama birth, the ex-governor says, "the public is still, rightfully, making it an issue" (Updated)
211

The poster boy for progressive self-delusion

Read Hayden's 2008 Obama endorsement to remember the way the left sold our centrist president to itself

View all »

Letters Help

Currently in Salon