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Tuesday, January 13, 2009 12:00 AM

I'm not ready to be a stepmom

If I marry, I get a 16-year-old who can barely take care of herself.

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  • Tuesday, January 13, 2009 07:42 AM

    If this letter isn't fiction...

    ...then I suggest that LW find a copy of Elizabeth Bowen's novel, The Death of the Heart (1938), and read it cover to cover. A naive, newly-orphaned sixteen year-old goes to live with her disaffected older half brother and his cold-hearted, stylish wife, whose name is Anna, oddly enough. The housekeeper and the part-time governess are the only caring people in the girl's life. It's a stunning portrait of neglect and failure, and may help the letter writer see her own terrible shallowness more clearly.

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