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Tuesday, January 13, 2009 12:00 AM

I'm not ready to be a stepmom

If I marry, I get a 16-year-old who can barely take care of herself.
By Cary Tennis

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  • Tuesday, January 13, 2009 05:36 AM

    Cary is exactly right

    Your boyfriend has been a lousy irresponsible father; he would probably make a lousy irresponsible husband.

    He is obviously a few years older than you. He could finally grow up, but the odds are against it. You, on the other hand still have time to get your life onto a better track.

    —Hoosier Daddy Read Hoosier Daddy's other letters

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