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You only miss feeling superior to your lost boyfriend, you don't actually miss him ,and you dont really trust the second , with good reason
You're twenty five years old . There a lot more interstng things to do than overanalyze your own motives.. Open the wndow and take a deep breath. Thats the smell of freedom.
Don't even consider settling down with one person for at least three years- enjoy your life and the multitude of men out there as well as the blessed solitude.