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The current boyfriend can't seem to figure out what to do with his life which is pathtic since someone just paid for 4 years of education for naught; the other one sounds like he's really into navel-gazing; and you? well, you need to stop being so caught up with everyone being so damn brilliant and intelligent...cuz, girlfriend, trust me when I tell you that intelligence has nothing to do with nothing when it comes to finding the right man.
Get your education, take your international service, and leave these two behind.
And since when did finding cures for diseases become burgie? What a snobbish thing to think - and say.