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Everyone wants something they don't have. My advice, don't get married. Inevitably it will become less exciting, you know comfortable. But if you always expect someone else to make you happy, well it just won't happen. Happiness isn't about your partner nor is it about their profession. Happiness is about you and your willingness to be happy with yourself, only then can you be happy with someone else you know for who they are not for who you want them to be.