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And you are no princess. You seem to be trying very hard to become a soap opera.
1. Guy #1 disappoints you and leaves for China; 2. Guy #2 disappoints you by watching the Simpsons; 3. Guy #1 returns and you like him again; 4. Guy #2 leaves you; 5. All of a sudden, you like Guy #2 again.
Better Approach: To heck with these guys! Become something yourself. Do you realize that you will be very lucky to get into a position where you even have a chance to help the Third World, or whatever it was you wrote? (That part was the silly immature part that all these posters are complaining about.)
Work for that chance, and let Guys #3 through #Infinity vie for you.