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LW, you aren't mature or selfless enough yet for love, bluntly put. You express more concern (and glee) about the drama you are causing than you do caring for either of the guys you're juggling. If you want to live a bad 20-something dramedy, go write one. But you might want to realize that love is a two-way street in which you should care more for those you love than you do playing them off each other or generating false drama.