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Much good advice in these letters, not much to add but this - Don't take this personally, but really no one out there cares about your lifestyle. That applies to you, me, grandma, everyone. Everybody you know and those that you don't know are just living their own lives, dealing with their own issues and they aren't paying a bit of attention to you and your choices. I'm a forty-nine year old fart, and I'm so glad to be done with that phase of life that you're going through. Ten years from now you'll look back and realize that none of this mattered at all. Then you'll really be free. Don't sweat this.