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Wednesday, August 13, 2008 12:00 AM

Should I tell my boyfriend's wife about our affair?

I'm leaving him and he's a scumbag. I think she should know who she's really married to.
By Cary Tennis

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  • Tuesday, August 12, 2008 07:36 PM

    I was that wife

    I've been the cheated on, oblivious wife. I'm telling you: I wish I had been told. I really, really do. I would have been devastated, but I would NOT have had a child with a man who was deceiving and disrespecting me.

    I don't agree with the poster who said you should print out the personal ads and mail them--he will create some lousy excuse, and they will bond with the "someone is trying destroy us" glue.

    Call her, meet with her, tell her gently and firmly. Don't keep in contact with her and prolong the drama. Give her a small shred of dignity and disappear.

    —dianaprince Read dianaprince's other letters

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