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Wednesday, August 13, 2008 12:00 AM

Should I tell my boyfriend's wife about our affair?

I'm leaving him and he's a scumbag. I think she should know who she's really married to.

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  • Tuesday, August 12, 2008 07:03 PM

    -- aeschylus deserves a star

    and has it exactly right. Perhaps you really feel guilty, or maybe you are just pissed off at him. Whatever the case, don't orchestrate a train wreck and hang out to watch the carnage. Don't call, don't confess, don't make it about you. Get the hell out and give her the opportunity to find out in an anonymous fashion. What she does with it is up to her.

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