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to southern b
The problem may not be that your one soulmate is SO sexually incompatible AND doesn't seem to respect YOUR desires ("you won't let yourself like it"), but that you've brainwashed yourself to think there is ONE man on this entire earth who can make you laugh, feel happy, etc. There is the fallacy. In fact I'm say a 'partner' who doesn't respect your sexual boundaries and tries to pressure you is NOT your soulmate, much less the ONLY one on earth. Your repression isn't in your sexual boudaries, but in your limiting yourself to this one inappropriate person. Why tell yourself you deserve the ONE person on earth who is NOT compatible or respectful.