Letters to the Editor
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stick with the marriage...
Cary nailed it for once.
You say you love your wife, you say you want to stay married--and she wants to stay married to you. So hang in there. And don't go cruising on the internet or elsewhere for guys--it wouldn't be cool if a 100% heterosexual husband looked for other women.
No one person is going to be able to fulfill ALL of anybody's sexual wants. This is true of heterosexuals as well as bisexuals. But there are rewards for being in a committed relationship with another person. There's the old saying that to get depth, you have to sacrifice breadth--and vice versa.
A Christian is, by definition, someone who believes that Jesus was the son of God the Father, died on the cross for humanity's sins, and rose from the dead. Do you believe that? Then your sexual orientation (or your sexual activities, or really any activities) don't make a damn bit of difference whether you are or are not a Christian.
If it would help, talk with your pastor about what's going on. If it wouldn't help, maybe you need to be in a different congregation.
(side note to "chilifries": there is no one "Christian" denomination in the manner you imply. Some Christians and Christian denominations would say homosexuality is a person's fault, others wouldn't. My own denomination--Roman Catholicism, not exactly known for liberalism on sexual matters--is very clear that whatever causes homosexual desire, feeling that way is NOT a choice on the part of the homosexual.)